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What to say to Women


Ever been stuck for words, not knowing what to say to women, especially when you are trying to flirt with her or chat her up.

Maybe you are an aspiring pick up artist and want to have lines for every single moment of the conversation.

The single most important thing to remember is that it is not what you say but how you say it.

You could have the best line in the world but have the confidence of someone in the pits of depression. No matter what pick up line you use, you will never succeed with the woman you are trying to pick up unless you have a baseline of social skills and confidence.

That’s right, you need the ability to have a normal conversation. If you can’t then no pick up line will save you.

Once you do have normal conversation/social skills, then you can start focusing on what to say to women.

Make sure what you say is fun and not too serious

You can be the best looking guy in the world, but if you are really serious, then you become dull in the eyes of women. So avoid conversations about politics, religion, you favorite computer programming language, etc. These subjects do not inspire feelings of fun.

Also do not ever talk about how much you hate your job or how your boss sucks. It will only inspire negative feelings in the girl you want to pick up or start dating.

Avoid the Logical, Stick with the Emotional when talking to women

Most guys find it easy to talk about batting averages, yards gained and how much horsepower is under the hood of their car. This stuff bores the women you are talking to. Notice how it all involves numbers? That’s because it’s rigid and logical.

Instead talk about the emotional. These are topics that make you feel emotions, like happiness/sadness/shock/terror. Talking about emotional topics attracts girls. Think about as ‘talking on their wavelength’.

Now you are probably wondering what specifically should you talk about with women when you first meet them, well….

What to say to women

Starting off the conversation with something that grabs their attention and makes them laugh

“Hey, I wore my best shirt tonight and you still haven’t complimented me, what’s going on?”

“You know, you remind me of someone. Do you work in the 7-11 down the street?”
She will obviously say no. “I’m pretty sure you do, if it was me, I wouldn’t admit it either.”

You may notice from the 2 examples above that they both tease the girl and are funny. This is key as it is very disarming when you are funny. Women do not want their fun time destroyed by some boring serious guy asking an ‘interview’ question.

‘Interview type’ interview type questions will absolutely destroy any attraction a girl has for you. One or two are fine but any more and she will be yawning and then running.

  • Do you live in this city?
  • Want are you doing tonight?
  • What are you drinking?
  • Are you having fun?
Notice that these are logical/information questions. They mostly lead to dull conversations. Avoid them

Then once you are in a conversation with a woman you like, keep fun, emotional topics in mind while chatting and flirting with her. Topics like,
  • Celebrtiy drama
  • The time you got really scared/excited
  • What fun/crazy stuff you have done lately
There is tons more information on what to say to women in Dating Conversation Tips. I’d even advise reading it to help brush up your conversational/social skills if they are not already perfect.

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