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How to get a Guy to like you


 These dating tips will teach you how to get a guy to like you. It may take a while to remember all these tips, so it’s a good idea to read this dating advice more than once.

Be your best self

You may have gotten advice from your parents or friends to “be yourself”. This is good advice, but you don’t just have to be yourself, you have to be your best self! We say this because everybody has good and bad traits, but we only want to display our best traits. You should never hide anything from a guy, but you should wait until you know him a bit better or you are already dating before telling him about your insecurities and worries. First impressions do count. So to give the best first impression to a guy, you have to make sure that you present your best self!

Use your eyes

This can be a little tricky to get right. Nearly every man will tell you that he likes a woman with confidence. The best way to show him that you’re confident is to be able to maintain eye contact when chatting with him or if he glances at you from across the room. The mistake some girls make is that they never break eye contact with the guy. Staring at the man nonstop will make you seem like a stalker. This is not attractive in any way. It will send him running in the opposite direction. So get comfortable with holding eye contact with guys you like but just remember, no staring!

Look good!

Hopefully, this goes without saying, guys do like girls who look good and dress well. So if you need to wear makeup to cover any blemishes or you like to use eye makeup to draw attention to your eyes then use it, but do remember that the less you can possibly wear and still look good the better. The same goes for clothes and shoes. Obviously it’s better to keep up to date fashion wise, but more importantly wear clothes that accent the best parts of your body. Just remember 99% of guys don’t know the latest trends in women’s fashion. So if you’re stuck, it’s fine to wear something that’s two years old as long as it fits you well. The same goes for shoes.


how to get a girl to like you, dating tips, love, heart, candy heart Knowing how to flirt is crucial when learning how to get a guy to like you. The art of flirting is saying something mean but meaning something nice. Examples are, “I thought that I should come over and talk to you as you seem kinda shy” or “I thought I should come over and give you some fashion advice, that belt doesn’t match your shoes.” The key to flirting is to make sure that you have a smile on your face when you say the flirting line. If you seem serious then you will only offend people. Remember that flirting is supposed to be fun!


Quite a lot of girls, when trying to figure out how to get a guy to like you are afraid that the guy will somehow find out that you like him and that this would somehow lead to him not liking you. This often leads girls to stop smiling or worse even seem a little serious and withdrawn when around the guy they like. This is not attractive to men. Instead when you are around him you need to smile and be in a good mood. This way he will associate happiness and positive emotions with being around you, so smile.

Don’t confuse friendship with attraction

Just because you spend a lot of time with the boy you like doesn’t mean necessarily that he is attracted to you. The same is true in situations where a guy tells you his intimate secrets. He may just see you as a friend and perhaps not someone he is attracted to. However if he is very touchy-feely with you and you are always joking with each other and he makes prolonged eye contact with you, then you can be sure he is attracted to you. Check out how to tell if a guy likes you and signs he is attracted to you for more tips reading the signs of attraction.

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