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How to get a guy to ask you out


It can be frustrating not knowing how to get a guy to ask you out on a date. These dating tips will help get guys attracted to you and asking you out on dates. Just remember that getting a guy to ask you out can take time.

Make sure he’s attracted

The first step in this process is getting the guy attracted to you. There are loads of great articles in the Dating Advice for Women section that teach you how to make guys attracted to you but they will take a while to read. For the now there are a few easy things to do to make him attracted to you.
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Always look your best.

Make sure you flirt with him. Some women regard flirting as making cheeky/silly comments to guys. Others see it getting the guy laughing. Make sure that the next few times you are around him that you flirt.

Touch him when you are talking to him. Touching a guy does 2 things. It will make him attracted to you but more importantly it lets him know that you are like him in a subtle way. This is crucial, as guys fear rejection just as much as girls do. Men want to know that you like them before they are willing to take a leap of faith and ask you out.

The power of suggestion

Many girls, in seeking dating advice for getting guys to like them, think that they should leave everything up to the man. This is a bad idea. If you want him to be your boyfriend then it requires some effort from you. You never have to ask him out. But you can make excuses to hang out. Saying things like, “Hey, have you seen that new movie?” or “Could you help me with this maths problem?” give you and him a chance to hang out and is definitely something you should aim to do together. Remember this isn’t you asking him out on a date. It’s how to get a guy to ask you out on a date without you risking being embarrassed.

If all else fails

If you really like this guy and he still hasn’t asked you out, then it’s time to take action. You either need a friend to subtly ask around if he likes you or you need to get someone to arrange for both of you to go to the same party or other event so you can ‘bump into each other’.

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