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Flirting Tips for Shy Girls


These flirting tips for shy girls will help get you the guy you want by making you more confident. Becoming a good flirter takes patience and practice, so it’s important to remember that while these flirting tips will definitely help you get better at flirting, it will take some practice before you become expert.

Your Appearance

You may not have expected to see this as the first tip, but it’s important to make sure you dress well and look after your appearance as it does matter. This does not mean that you should dress like a slut! Just make sure that what you are wearing is attractive.

Use your shyness to your advantage

The previous tip explains that you should not dress slutty. This is a crucial yet sometimes misunderstood concept. Dressing slutty will give you the appearance of being sexually aggressive, but it’s the man’s job to take the lead when it comes to this stuff, remember?

This is what’s so attractive about shy girls. Men like to think that they are the ones moving the interaction forward. By being shy but (but not necessarily submissive) you can allow men to fulfil their roles as the dominant one.

Ask him about Himself and be Interested

There are just as many shy men as there are shy women, so sometimes a man may be a little bit afraid to take the lead when you are talking to him. The best way to solve this is to ask him questions about himself. Ask him what he is currently doing for school/work (maybe a little boring but a good start), what he does for fun when he’s not talking to you, where was the last vacation he took, what’s the craziest thing he’s ever done or what he’s planning to do for the summer.

The key to asking these questions is that you must be interested in the answers. If you don’t care about what you are asking him, then he will sense it and lose interest.

Smile and be Happy

Hopefully this flirting tip for shy girls is obvious. People like to be around happy and positive people, they don’t want to be stuck with people who bring them down and make them feel bad about themselves. So look for reasons to be happy and positive but also to make other people happy and positive. You may be shy, but that doesn’t mean you don’t have to be positive.

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