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First Date Questions


Nervous about what first date questions you should be asking your potential partner? Have no fear, Real Dating Tips is here!

first date questions, dating tips, dating questionsThe most important thing to remember on a first date is not to be too serious (easier said than done, but try to remember this!). So with that in mind, remember that there is no need to ask very serious questions for the first few dates you go on.

Obviously once you get to know each other better it’s normal to ask deeper probing questions about your life and past, but for the first date you need to just chill and be fun.

So what are first date questions to avoid?

First Date Topics to Avoid

  • When was the last time you had a boyfriend/girlfriend? (or any questions that could have negative answers about past relationships)
  • Do you come from a good family?
  • Have you got any illnesses?
  • Do you earn a lot of money?
  • Do you have a big house?
  • How expensive is you car?
  • Do you want kids?
You may notice from reading this list that if someone asked you any of those questions, you would beome seriously uncomfortable, so avoid them.

The questions you should be asking on a first date need to be fun, flirty and interesting so your date will associate good feelings and emotions with you.

Great First Date Questions

  • What do you do for fun?
  • What’s the craziest thing you did this week?
  • What do you do with yourself when you’re not hanging out with a great guy/girl like me?
  • If you could choose between being invisible for a day or be able to fly for a day, which would you pick?
  • What’s the most bizarre first date you’ve ever been on?
  • Do you think you could beat me in a thumb wrestle?
  • Have you travelled abroad much?
  • If you could pick only one place in the world to live for the rest of your life, where would it be?
You may have notcied from reading this list that these questions are not too serious. They are fun and light hearted. The best thing is that they will make your date feel at ease talking to you because asking these kinds of questions does not put people on the spot in a harsh or serious way.

While these questions are great for first and second dates, you will quickly become boring if you can not talk beyond surface level topics like ‘doing crazy things for fun’. Check out Dating Conversation Tips for some great tips on how to become great at conversation

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