How to Cum – Orgasm Tips for Girls
Learning how to cum is not difficult. Having gotten many emails from
frustrated girlfriends and married women that can’t orgasm properly and
fully, we decided to put together a step-by-step guide to teach you how
to make yourself cum. Just follow these simple steps and you will soon
be having powerful orgasms.
Before you learn these awesome techniques on how to orgasm, just
remember that you are not the only one. There are many girls and even
some guys out there that have trouble reaching orgasm and cumming.
There are two distinct problems that women have. First is not being
able to cum when you are pleasuring yourself. Second is not being able
to cum during sex. We will discuss both here, but we’ll begin by
discussing how to cum when pleasuring yourself.
How to Make Yourself Cum
The first step to making yourself cum is learning to relax.
this may sound difficult, but you will find that the best way to relax
is to make sure that you don’t have any serious commitments for a few
hours. So make sure that you take care of any work, be it laundry,
tidying your place, or even paying bills. So now you’ll have a few
hours free of any commitments.
to organize to have this free time in the evening)
Now that you have some time to yourself, you need to start putting
yourself in the mood. Think of this as the foreplay (a serious part of
learning how to cum).
Examples of this
long, hot bath.
to that song that really arouses you.
candles in your bedroom.
few chapters of a romantic book.
on clothes or lingerie that makes you feel really sexy.
This could take you up to 4 hours. The longer the better as it will
help to build anticipation. Remember this is a serious part of learning
to cum properly, don’t
Next you need to get into bed. You may find that you are more
comfortable under the covers, but it’s up to you. The same goes for
using a lubricant or massage oil to help you to cum. Only use them if
you want to.
Now you need to slowly start caressing your body where it feels best.
Just lightly massage yourself. Remember that there’s no rush. Don’t
even think about having an orgasm, just find the places and parts of
your body that are most sensitive and give the most pleasure.
Concentrate on these areas while increasing the intensity with which
you rub and caress them.
Making yourself have an orgasm is not just about the physical, it’s
also a very cerebral or emotional experience. So you may have a fantasy
or a memory of when you were incredibly turned on by something. Use
this to your advantage when learning how to cum, start thinking about that fantasy or arousing
As you concentrate more and more on only the most sensitive and
pleasurable (erogenous) zones, you will start to to become even more
aroused. Increase your arousal further by massaging yourself faster and
more firmly until eventually you orgasm or cum.
You may fell a little weird or exhausted after you climax, but that’s
completely normal and nothing to be worried about, it’s because you
Make sure you won’t be disturbed the entire time.
You don’t have to be in the bedroom, just make sure that it’s a
comfortable place and make sure that place is warm.
You may find that reading an erotic novel while massaging yourself to
be the best for reaching orgasm and climaxing.
And finally, there is no rush when you are learing how to cum: Some people take a few hours, some
people take a 10 minutes, different people take longer than others.
How to Cum during Sex
According to the a recent study,
75% of women don’t orgasm during sexual intercourse, so if you are
having trouble climaxing during sex, then don’t worry, it’s completely
normal. However cumming during sex is a wonderful feeling, so follow
these awesome tips to make sure that you do cum during nookie.
Just like learning to cum on your own, cuming during sex requires you
to be able to relax. So don’t necessarily expect to orgasm the first
time you are with a new man. Both guys and girls often find that they
are a little nervous the first few times they sleep with each other. As
a result you may find it hard to relax. Don’t worry, this is totally
However after a while when you are with the same guy, you will slowly
become more relaxed. When you do feel comfortable with your man, you
can go through almost the exact same process as described in the making
yourself cum section.
Take some time to feel sexy, wear clothes that make you feel sexy and
make sure that you are in a place that feels sexy.
Next, make sure that your man understands foreplay. Tell him that you
need it (Sometimes men forget how important it is for women as guys can
get aroused so quickly and easily).
If you want to cum during sex then you’ll need to give your man
directions. If you’ve never done it before then don’t sweat, it’s
When he’s touching you in an area that feels really good, just let out
a sigh, “That
feels so good” or “Just there”
It will let him know where to focus on and what to do. And don’t worry,
men are just as worried about pleasing you as you are about pleasing
them so they will listen.
Tip: You will find that a lot of the cowgirl love making
are fantastic for clitoral stimulation.
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