Confidence with Women – How to get it
Follow these steps and soon you will have no trouble at all when it comes to chatting with women, flirting with them and eventually dating them.
Before we get to the steps on what you need to do to boost your confidence, understand these two simple facts.
This is not a short process. Getting confident around women takes time. Don’t expect that you will be totally relaxed around girls after reading this article (it will help but it’s going to take a little time, practice and patience).
You need to put in some effort into this process. You can’t just sit around and hope that things will change. You have to expose yourself gradually to more and more pressure type situations around girls to get more confident around them.
Okay, so now that you understand that this takes time and effort on your behalf, here are the exercises you need to do to boost your confidence with girls.
Start exposing yourself to situations involving women in which you feel uncomfortable. Start with small steps: go to the mall and practice making eye contact with at least ten women until they look away. No matter what happens, keep looking at them until they look away. The purpose of this exercise is to show you that nothing bad happens when you interact with women.
Next you need to start talking to women you find attractive. There is no need to chat them up, all you need to do is have a short conversation with them. Stop wearing a watch and go to the mall. Ask 10 girls for the time or directions. They will all be happy to give you the time or directions. Anyone who doesn’t won’t because they are rude or just in a rush, that’s it. Again the purpose of this exercise is to show you that nothing terrible happens when you talk to a girl. Try asking a few girls a day for the time or directions. This will cement the fact that girls are not actually that scary.
Now you need to doing things that are a little more daunting to test your confidence with women a little further. You need to start flirting with women. The only purpose of this is to put a smile on their faces. You are not trying to pick them up, just put a smile on their faces. Check out Dating Tips for Guys for more tips on this.
Eventually after making many different girls smile and feel comfortable around you, it’s a good idea to start trying to pick them up or arrange dates with them. Check out the Pick Up Artist guide for more tips on this.
That’s all there is really to gaining confidence around girls. Constantly exposing yourself to a little bit of social pressure will help you develop a relaxed attitude and make you feel confident around women.
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